I know people lie
Have you ever talked to a person's face and then feel that there is something to hide or not say the truth? When it comes to things that are important, of course, a lie can cause great problems. Then, have you ever watch yourself when you're lying? What do you do and in what way you tell a lie? Often we do not realize that there are attitudes and certain gestures when someone is lying. If this is realized, then it is likely the person will lie very good at lying. But for those who are less able to act, consciously lie to hide it will cause stiffness and become easily known indication signal lies. Well, for those of us who want to know that someone is lying or not, aware of these things can be easier for us to detect
Way and will be delivered the following characteristics is not without foundation. If you observe and likes to watch movies, soap operas, dramas, or any event that is wrapped with acting, you definitely do agree that all the actors / actresses are lying. Right? They're not being true to themselves and portray characters and stories created. There are convincing, some are dubious. Well, based on a little of what I learned in the theater and psychology, these people know how to lie:
1 Know the way he usually speaks
As a friend, you must know how usually friends or people you know when to speak. There are things that are typical of each person when to utter something, either when sad, happy, angry, and so forth. This characteristic is usually followed by a special gesture, such as lips, hands, body, eyes, eyebrows and other things that have differences with each other. In ways that are not the same in a way that is usually done when talking could be the first clue.
2 Notice pressures in speech pattern
A person who is under pressure and psychological insistence also came under pressure as a particular physical impact. For example, increased heart rate and blood flow quickly. It affects other physical activity, in this case speaking activity. People who lie tend to have a tone and unreasonable pressure. This is due to the pressures and considerations in mind that the tug states lie. In essence, states that deception is naturally going to put pressure on the state at once psychological, physical, and mental. Therefore, the greater the pressure that appears,
3 Look at some of the signs and gestures (movements) that appear specific.
The following are some of the signs and gestures that are often found in people who are lying;
Gestures are minimal or not moving at all or moving it excessively. People who are lying tend to 'freeze', not often deal with the other person, and trying to minimize body movement. There is also the fact bergrak excessively. All of it was an attempt to avoid the appearance of signs that he is lying. However, it is precisely ni could also be an indication that someone is lying.
There is no eye contact. People are being lied to often avoid eye contact. Instinctively, he will avoid the gaze of the other. Eye contact in speech is a supporter and also store additional information when speaking. By making eye contact, a person who is being lied to capture the signal information that is not in sync with what was said. That is why there is also scientific knowledge then read the minds of others through eye contact.
Gesture other body parts that show distress. For example mengkukur2, play finger nails, blink excessively, swallowed several times, and other movements are performed repeatedly. Feeling scared, nervous, uncomfortable, and the idea of what would happen if he was known to lie to make people experience high pressure and do things that actually showed anxiety.
Look to the top right. Seeing this direction is associated in an effort to hire and cultivate the imagination to come up with the right brain, which is the effort to create the fabric of a story based on what he has to say. Instead, look to the left in an effort to call associated memory to declare the truth / the fabric of the real story.
Wide-open eyes and a look of innocent (not guilty). Habits in childhood that still we take now is to open the eyes wide open and make the innocent look, as if to say, "Who? .... I'm guilty ?!" It is often we do when a child when there is a packet of bread caught Mom big missing from the refrigerator. ! (^^)
Talk stuttering (paused). Not everyone has a great talent in making a story and speak fluently when lying. Thus, it is often found that pausing talks and the unnatural tempo. Usually occurs when a part of a hoax about to leveled, when he was trying to make up the fabric of the story. This is where the story usually delivered begun inconsistent and changeable.
Touching the nose and covering the face or mouth. This is also the default since childhood, which is a reflective response when someone wants to cover up something.
High tone. People who lie tend to raise the tone. As well as business information submitted asserted, emotions rise, and high pressure. It would be very easy to know if you have known the habit of speaking interlocutors.
4 Reduce / eliminate information that must be submitted.
Lying is not only to say things that are not real, but also by eliminating information that should be said on the other person. This indication is actually more easily identified because the information is usually braided / or stories submitted become whole and raises many questions. Omens mentioned above will still appear. After convey information in the style of convincing, he will do certain gestures-gestures, such as touching the nose or mouth / face.
5. Ask people who you suspect is lying.
Of course this will also invite great risk. If, it turns out you do not lie to the other person, then this method will bring adverse effects. Therefore, use this method if you have gained a lot of signs on top and you are absolutely sure that the person with whom you have lied. However, leave and do not ask any person who is lying will also have dire consequences, especially for the perpetrator. Therefore, this method is also a solution that lies perpetrator confessed and problems can then look for solutions to be resolved.
6 Use Intuition.
Believe it or not, man was created to have intuition. Furthermore, man was created to tell the truth. Therefore man is basically difficult to perform and difficult to lie lied. Intuition is totally different from lust, because lust associated with the desire, so it is subjective. While intuition be objective and not based on the desire. So feel cheated and lied to prejudge not the same. Before believe you lied to yourself, ask yourself if this is because of prejudice or because of your intuition. Even if you ultimately do not know if you are being lied to by the evidence, but at least you know that it looks like someone is lying to you so that you will not believe it for granted.
So, you ready to lie?
Have you ever talked to a person's face and then feel that there is something to hide or not say the truth? When it comes to things that are important, of course, a lie can cause great problems. Then, have you ever watch yourself when you're lying? What do you do and in what way you tell a lie? Often we do not realize that there are attitudes and certain gestures when someone is lying. If this is realized, then it is likely the person will lie very good at lying. But for those who are less able to act, consciously lie to hide it will cause stiffness and become easily known indication signal lies. Well, for those of us who want to know that someone is lying or not, aware of these things can be easier for us to detect
Way and will be delivered the following characteristics is not without foundation. If you observe and likes to watch movies, soap operas, dramas, or any event that is wrapped with acting, you definitely do agree that all the actors / actresses are lying. Right? They're not being true to themselves and portray characters and stories created. There are convincing, some are dubious. Well, based on a little of what I learned in the theater and psychology, these people know how to lie:
1 Know the way he usually speaks
As a friend, you must know how usually friends or people you know when to speak. There are things that are typical of each person when to utter something, either when sad, happy, angry, and so forth. This characteristic is usually followed by a special gesture, such as lips, hands, body, eyes, eyebrows and other things that have differences with each other. In ways that are not the same in a way that is usually done when talking could be the first clue.
2 Notice pressures in speech pattern
A person who is under pressure and psychological insistence also came under pressure as a particular physical impact. For example, increased heart rate and blood flow quickly. It affects other physical activity, in this case speaking activity. People who lie tend to have a tone and unreasonable pressure. This is due to the pressures and considerations in mind that the tug states lie. In essence, states that deception is naturally going to put pressure on the state at once psychological, physical, and mental. Therefore, the greater the pressure that appears,
3 Look at some of the signs and gestures (movements) that appear specific.
The following are some of the signs and gestures that are often found in people who are lying;
Gestures are minimal or not moving at all or moving it excessively. People who are lying tend to 'freeze', not often deal with the other person, and trying to minimize body movement. There is also the fact bergrak excessively. All of it was an attempt to avoid the appearance of signs that he is lying. However, it is precisely ni could also be an indication that someone is lying.
There is no eye contact. People are being lied to often avoid eye contact. Instinctively, he will avoid the gaze of the other. Eye contact in speech is a supporter and also store additional information when speaking. By making eye contact, a person who is being lied to capture the signal information that is not in sync with what was said. That is why there is also scientific knowledge then read the minds of others through eye contact.
Gesture other body parts that show distress. For example mengkukur2, play finger nails, blink excessively, swallowed several times, and other movements are performed repeatedly. Feeling scared, nervous, uncomfortable, and the idea of what would happen if he was known to lie to make people experience high pressure and do things that actually showed anxiety.
Look to the top right. Seeing this direction is associated in an effort to hire and cultivate the imagination to come up with the right brain, which is the effort to create the fabric of a story based on what he has to say. Instead, look to the left in an effort to call associated memory to declare the truth / the fabric of the real story.
Wide-open eyes and a look of innocent (not guilty). Habits in childhood that still we take now is to open the eyes wide open and make the innocent look, as if to say, "Who? .... I'm guilty ?!" It is often we do when a child when there is a packet of bread caught Mom big missing from the refrigerator. ! (^^)
Talk stuttering (paused). Not everyone has a great talent in making a story and speak fluently when lying. Thus, it is often found that pausing talks and the unnatural tempo. Usually occurs when a part of a hoax about to leveled, when he was trying to make up the fabric of the story. This is where the story usually delivered begun inconsistent and changeable.
Touching the nose and covering the face or mouth. This is also the default since childhood, which is a reflective response when someone wants to cover up something.
High tone. People who lie tend to raise the tone. As well as business information submitted asserted, emotions rise, and high pressure. It would be very easy to know if you have known the habit of speaking interlocutors.
4 Reduce / eliminate information that must be submitted.
Lying is not only to say things that are not real, but also by eliminating information that should be said on the other person. This indication is actually more easily identified because the information is usually braided / or stories submitted become whole and raises many questions. Omens mentioned above will still appear. After convey information in the style of convincing, he will do certain gestures-gestures, such as touching the nose or mouth / face.
5. Ask people who you suspect is lying.
Of course this will also invite great risk. If, it turns out you do not lie to the other person, then this method will bring adverse effects. Therefore, use this method if you have gained a lot of signs on top and you are absolutely sure that the person with whom you have lied. However, leave and do not ask any person who is lying will also have dire consequences, especially for the perpetrator. Therefore, this method is also a solution that lies perpetrator confessed and problems can then look for solutions to be resolved.
6 Use Intuition.
Believe it or not, man was created to have intuition. Furthermore, man was created to tell the truth. Therefore man is basically difficult to perform and difficult to lie lied. Intuition is totally different from lust, because lust associated with the desire, so it is subjective. While intuition be objective and not based on the desire. So feel cheated and lied to prejudge not the same. Before believe you lied to yourself, ask yourself if this is because of prejudice or because of your intuition. Even if you ultimately do not know if you are being lied to by the evidence, but at least you know that it looks like someone is lying to you so that you will not believe it for granted.
So, you ready to lie?
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